If you are a stay-at-home Filipino mom and your husband is the employed parent, you may be left to feel quite anxious regarding the management of household finances. After showing up to a tedious 9-5 full-time job, he usually gives you an amount for the household expenses and lets you budget for the expenditures. There maybe times that you’ll encounter family financial related problems no matter how tight you stick to your budget.
However, as a responsible parent, try to keep an open mind about your family’s financial situation. Since the goal is to maintain happy lives, the best way to handle family financial related problems is to have open discussions with your spouse regularly. Be frank on whether the amount he gives you is sufficient or not. Do not keep thoughts and resentments bottled up. And, instead of creating opportunities for all sorts of family feuds about money to come in, learn to collaborate as a couple for your children.
Here are some Stay-at-home Mom Financial Tips:
Create a Budget
On paper, jot down all expenses; tally how much you need for groceries, transportation, food, and other utilities on a monthly basis. Do you need money for personal activities? Do your children needs an extra allowance? Do you need to pay household helpers? Include every item that you spend money on. Then, show it to your spouse so he could come up a sufficient amount.
Figure Out Ways to Reduce Overall Expenses
As a stay-at-home mom, why not practice a frugal lifestyle? It will surely help you get rid of unnecessary expenses. Teach your children to consume resources properly and not let the items go to waste. Other than that, encourage them to always be practical. According to the NSO, as of 2014, while there are families that live comfortably, there are a few employees who bring in just an average of P6,000 monthly to their families and end up always in debt. That said, it is wise to always be mindful of your spending habits as a family. Do your part, and, regardless of the exact income that your husband makes, you can help him by ensuring that you do not spend more money than he earns.
Manage an Emergency Fund
For instance, if your husband gives you P3,000 monthly to set aside in case of emergencies, make sure you keep it. Avoid the temptation of “borrowing” from that amount for unnecessary purchases, even if it feels that you will not need it anytime soon. It is better to save it in a bank and allow it to accumulate over time. That way, when unexpected circumstances (e.g. vehicular accidents, natural calamities, hospitalization, and family affairs) arise, you are prepared.
Consider Making an Investment
Because you are mostly at home, try finding time to arrange an investment that all of you can benefit in the future. Talk to your husband about it. You can invest in stock exchange, mutual funds or in a business. A simple example of is a store. If you like the idea of selling foods to different locations, why not start a food truck business?
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As a result, you will find yourself more comfortable in managing your family finances.
Solara says
Though I am not a stay-at-home mom, your financial tips also apply to mothers like me who has 8-5 jobs.
jennifer villanueva says
i agree with everything that you said, this is one aspect in being a stay at home mom that we should rally pay careful attention to. while our husband work to get the bacon home, we need to find ways to help make the effort go a long way… that’s what partnerships do. this post is a good read especially to new time moms.
Jem Alvarado says
Hi Jennifer,
Thanks.Yes partnership and understanding each other. 🙂
Lorly says
I need this! Sounds like this will make my financial stress in order. Thanks for sharing.
Kaity says
Thanks for these tips, Mommy!(: Will surely keep these in mind as I also tend to overspend sometimes. Yikes!
Shiella says
You are right, being transparent with your spouse is a very important thing so there that there will be no assumptions.
Rowena Wendy Lei says
Sound advice! I think even if you are a working mom these are applicable.
MrsMartinez says
I try to invest whenever I have extra money. I always think twice sometime thrice before purchasing something new. I try to manage our household efficiently.
xoxo
MrsMartinez
Jacq says
Thanks for the tips! And yes nakaka-anxious nga especially na I’m a new stay-at-home mom since the birth of our son last month. 🙂 Glad to know I’m not alone and there are things that can be done to augment funds. 😉