The Unsolicited Sacrifices of a Mother and a Wife

It is not yet Mother’s Day, but I feel I have to post this. This is a tribute to all the mothers out there, whose love is unconditional and pure—a love that no other person can replicate. The sacrifices of a mother are immeasurable because they are unsolicited. Mothers simply love, and they will always love their children, no matter what. As Proverbs 31:30 wisely states, “Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised.”

A mother’s journey begins the day she conceives her child, but it doesn’t end there. It’s just the beginning of a roller coaster of joys and pains. She experiences sleepless nights, fueled by excitement to see her little one. And then, the labor pains—the most momentous event of her life, witnessing God’s miracle at its finest. She cherishes your sweet, innocent smile, and every milestone you achieve becomes her victory.

But a mother’s sacrifices go beyond the obvious. She’s there to guide you, even when you have a mind of your own. She doesn’t insist on her way, but she subtly makes you realize what’s right. Yes, “Mother knows best.” She disciplines you because she wants you to become the best version of yourself.

Resources may be limited, but she stretches them to provide for your needs. She doubles her efforts to ensure your survival in this world. She becomes your inspiration, your role model. And what can you give her on Mother’s Day that no amount of money can buy? Your appreciation, your love, and your respect for her sacrifices. For you alone are her greatest gift from God, as Psalm 127:3 beautifully puts it: “Children are God’s love-gift; they are heaven’s generous reward.”

Certainly! The sacrifices of a wife are profound and often go unnoticed. There are remarkable ways wives selflessly contribute to their families and relationships. Wives often bear the weight of emotional labor. They listen, empathize, and provide emotional support to their partners. Whether it’s celebrating successes or comforting during tough times, wives are there.

Many wives juggle careers and family responsibilities. They sacrifice personal time and sometimes career opportunities to prioritize their family’s well-being. manage households efficiently. From meal planning and grocery shopping to cleaning and organizing, they ensure a comfortable and functional home environment. So please husband and children, do not complain to the meals that we mothers prepare for you. Instead, appreciate our effort by eating and thanking us for what we cook.

In terms of parenting, they sacrifice sleep, personal interests, and sometimes career aspirations to raise children with love, patience, and guidance. They adapt to changing circumstances. They sacrifice personal preferences to accommodate our partner’s needs and create a harmonious home. They often contribute financially to the household. Whether through paid work or managing finances, their efforts are essential for family stability.

Mothers or wives plan birthdays, anniversaries, and special occasions. They sacrifice time and effort to create memorable moments for their loved ones. Wives often mediate conflicts, seeking resolution and maintaining peace. They sacrifice their own pride to keep relationships strong.

Beyond the visible tasks, most mothers or wives sacrifice their dreams, desires, and personal ambitions for the sake of their families. Their love is a silent force that binds everyone together.

So cherish her, listen to her, and honor her—for she won’t be there forever.